Daf LaKorei

 

 

 

 

SHABBOS TOLDOS

 

 

 

 

 

2 Kislev 5786 - 8 Kislev 5786

November 22, 2025

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November 28, 2025

 

 

DVAR TORAH

         

 

Do not rationalize your faults by blaming others for them.

The pusuk in perek 25 pusuk 20 begins "AND YITZCHOK WAS FORTY YEARS OLD WHEN HE TOOK RIVKAH, THE DAUGHTER OF BESUAIL THE AROMITE, FROM PADAN AROM, THE SISTER OF LAVAN THE AROMITE, FOR HIMSELF FOR A WIFE."

     Rashi raises the question that the information in this verse about Rivkah's background seems superfluous. The Torah has already stated that Rivkah was the daughter of Besuail, the sister of Lavan, and was from Padan Arom. The answer, says Rashi, is that this is to let us know the praise of Rivkah. She was the daughter of an evil person, the sister of an evil person, and lived in a community of evil people. Nevertheless, she did not learn from their evil behavior.

  The tendency of people, many times, is to try to excuse their faults by blaming others as the cause of their behavior. "It's not my fault I have this bad trait, I learned it from my father and mother." "I'm not to blame for this bad habit since all my brothers and sisters do it also." "Everyone in my neighborhood does this or does not do that, so how could I be any different?" They use this as a rationalization for failing to make an effort to improve.

   We see from our matriarch Rivkah that regardless of the faulty behavior of those in your surroundings, one has the ability to be more elevated. Of course, it takes courage and much effort to be different. The righteous person might be considered a nonconformist and even rebellious by those in their environment whose standard of values are below his level. However, a basic Torah principle is that we are responsible for our own actions.   

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Tuesday Dec 16^th at Funfest Lanes 5:00PM-7:00PM

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Mazal Tov:

Mazal Tov to Dr. Isaac J. Kreizman upon your aufruf and upcoming marriage to Yelena Kazakevich.

 

     Refuah Sheleima:

Shlomo Ben Naiomi, Leib ben Toiba, Magdolena Szigeti, Michael Weisblatt, Meir Kadosh, Zita Yakubovich, Samuel Richmond,  Melissa Nosomowitz, Eugene Galpert,  Lisa Weiselberg, Ann Bieber, Louis Gross, Lawrence & Carol Kaufman, Louis Kirsch, Florence Birnbaum, Binyamin Joyce,   Miriam Kindler, Breindy Teitelbaum, Avraham Daniel ben Devorah Tova, Tzilia Adamsky, Alex ben Leah, Helene Galletta, Gitel bat Sarah, Esther bat Janja, Anne Chesler, Irina bat Bayla, Erica bat Tila Elka, Tzipora bat Rajzi, Malka Shoshana bat Batya Nechama, Rochale Batya bat Chana Masha, Ronie ben Tzipora, Rivfka Deborah bat Gitel, Adam Meister, Pesach ben Bayla, Sima Rochel bat Yehudit, Benjamina Bat Necha, Efrat bas Shoshana, Shmuel Meltser ben Raizel, Menachem Mendel ben Rivkawolf, Shaya Eisen, Rachel Dvorah bat Tova, Miryam bat Shoshana, Harvey Hecker, Shlomo ben Shifrah, Ruth bat Emili, Rivka Chasha bas Tzivia Leah, Golda bas Feiga,  Chaim Rachmiel ben Yitzchok,  Zypora bat Malamed,  David Schor, Tzipora bat Velved Adamsky, William Schwartz, Yechiel Yaakov ben Tzivia Leah, Margalit Sara Efrat bat Katoon,  Chaya Sofya Sara bat Mera, Yisroel Dovid ben Batya, Avraham Ber ben Pesaa Bluma, Chana Frjda bat Judyt, Monachem Mendel ben Laya,   Asher ben Yael, Rivka bat Sara,  Felix Reydler, Allegra bat Rika, Boruch Yitzhock Elimelech ben Nechama. Rochel bat Batia, Yaakov ben Chaya Sarah, Shmuel Yackov ben Rivkah Tehillah, Sarah bat Sivan, Albert Kadosh, Sarah bat Chaya, Reuven ben Chana Leah, Avraham Tsvi ben Brynah, Luba bas Machla

Baruch Hashem, some of the above are nearing full recovery.

Our prayers are for all, with Hashem’s help, to have a Refuah Sheleima.

         

                   

                  

                   

                       

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            Mr. & Mrs. Edward & Rita Berkovitz in memory of Edward’s beloved grandmother, Edith Berkovitch A”H.

      Mr. & Mrs. Ronald & Paulette Lichtman in memory of Paulette’s beloved grandfather, David Greenwald Chaim Dovid A”H.

      Mrs. Klara Roth, Mr. Geoge Roth, and Mrs. Sylvia Fuksbrumer in memory of their beloved husband and father, Eugeny Roth A”H.

      Mrs. Frances Eckstein in memory of Frances’ beloved husband, Alex Eckstein A”H.

      Mr. & Mrs. Alex & Valerie Fraymovich in memory of Valerie’s beloved mother, Khana Vays A”H.

         

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           Mr. Albert Bukchin in memory of Albert’s beloved father, Osher Bukchin A”H, Mrs. Rita Gendel and Mr. Larry Goldstein in memory of their beloved father, Morris Goldstein A”H, Mrs. Chava Greenberg in memory of Chava’s beloved father, Jakob Szklarz A”H, Mr. Martin Izsak in memory of Martin’s beloved father, Joel Izsak A”H, Mrs. Klara Roth in memory of Klara’s beloved husband, Eugeny Roth A”H, Mrs. Frances Eckstein in memory of Frances’ beloved husband, Alex Eckstein A”H, Mrs. Susan Izsak in memory of Susan’s beloved father, Alex Eckstein A”H, Mr. Sarah Zylbershlag in memory of Sarah’s beloved husband, Dsvid Zylbershlag A”H, Mrs. Renee Goldenkranz in memory of Renee’s beloved husband, Dr. Max Goldenkranz A"H, Mrs. Robin Haag in memory of Robin’s beloved mother, Mildred Pepper A”H, Mr. Harvey Hecker in memory of Harvey’s beloved uncle, Shraga Fayvol A”H.

     

         

     

     

      

     

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