Daf LaKorei

 

 

 

Shabbos Vayeitzei

 

December 3, 2022 - December 9 2022

9 Kislev - 15 Kislev 5783

DVAR TORAH

                                                                                     

        

 

 

Do not allow yourself to be misled by an evil person.

"AND IT WAS WHEN LAVAN HEARD ABOUT THE COMING OF YAAKOV THE SON OF HIS SISTER, HE RAN TO GREET HIM, HE HUGGED HIM, HE KISSED HIM, HE BROUGHT HIM TO HIS HOUSE. AND [Yaakov] TOLD LAVAN ALL THAT HAD HAPPENED." (Chapter 29:13)

     How would you describe Lavan's behavior towards Yaakov from reading this verse? It would appear to be an extremely warm and loving greeting by an uncle who was sincerely happy to see his nephew. However, let us take a look at Rashi and see how the Sages viewed Lavan's greeting.

     "And he ran to greet him": Lavan assumed that Yaakov would be loaded with gifts since when Eliezer, their family's servant, came he brought along ten loaded camels. "And he hugged him": When Lavan didn't see anything, he said to himself that perhaps Yaakov had concealed gold under his garments and therefore he hugged him. "And he kissed him": Lavan said that perhaps Yaakov had diamonds hidden in his mouth and that is why he kissed him. Therefore Yaakov had to explain that he was fleeing for his life and was penniless.

     We know how important it is to judge people favorably. However, if someone is an evil person we are obligated to judge him unfavorably. Some people might find this rather harsh, but that is the reality with evil people assume the worst.

We need to master the ability of seeing the good in the bad and the bad in the good. Then we need the wisdom to know when to use each ability. Judging an evil person on the side of merit is not a virtue but a fault. Failure to be on guard to protect yourself from a deceitful person can cause you and others much damage and heartache. There are some people who naively refuse to believe that there are people who do all that they can to cheat them or worse even kill them. The way of Torah is to use wisdom to know when to assume the person has negative motivations and when to judge people favorably. Unfortunately, too many people fail to judge others favorably when they really should. However, the opposite extreme of believing everyone is great is considered the attribute of the fool.

     Today the world still chooses to look away from evil. They think that if we will be more compassionate there will be no evil in the world. They judge everyone favorable, that is an attribute of a fool and a fool pays a big price. 

Have a wonderful Shabbos from the Perelson Mishpacha

   

                                                                                                          

We Are Asking Everyone To Please Join Our Minyamin

Monday-Thursday at 6:10AM and 8:00AM

and Mincha at 4:20PM This Week

 

 

 

 

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UPCOMING EVENTS

 

PLEASE JOIN FPJC TUESDAY NIGHT

FOR

Tuesday Night’s Teen Learning Program

This Week Sponsored By

Mr.  & Mrs. Boris & Esther Drukker

 

 

 

Please Join FPJC For An Exclusive Event For The Guys!

Monday December 5^th At 6:30PM

Scotch, cigars, food, and great company.

$54 Per Person

 To make a reservation please see event link https://www.fpjc.org/event/fpjc-scotch--cigars---monday-december-5th--630.html

Looking Forward To Seeing Everyone!

 

Friday Night Dinner With Benny Amar

Please Join Us For A Friday Night Dinner

December 9th

$72 Per Adult $30 Per Child

Mincha 4:20PM Meal Begins 5:10PM

 

Please Join FPJC

Chanukah Bowling Party For Boy and Girls Ages 6-13

Tuesday Dec 20^th at Funfest Lanes 6:00PM-8:00PM

The party will include 1 hour of bowling and 1 hout in the party room.

Pizza, fries, soda and donuts will be served.

Please call the Shul office toconfrim your child’s attendance.

Registration is limited=first come, first served.

Please note: Sponsors Needeed

 

Shabbos Chanukah Luncheon At FPJC December 24^th at 12:00PM

$54 Per Adult $30 Per Child

Please Call Shul Office TO Reserve A Spot

 

 

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TUESDAY NIGHT TEENAGE BOYS LEARNING

PLEASE JOIN FPJC

FOR

Tuesday Night’s Teen Learning Program at 7:30PM

With Rabbi Yisroel Perelson

 

 

 

 

CHILDREN'S SHABBOS PROGRAM IS BACK!

PLEASE SEND YOUR CHILDREN TO GROUPS!

                                           

 

 

FLATBUSH PARK JEWISH CENTER WEEKLY EVENTS

Monday – Thursday

10 minutes before Mincha- Mishna

After Maariv- Chumash & Rashi

7:45- 9:45 PM Night Kollel -Topic of Your Choice

7:45- 8:15 PM The Mina Horowitz A”H Hilchos Shabbos Chabura

 8:30 - 8:40 Chovot Halevavot- Fundamentals of Bitachon (call in # 319.527.4425)

8:40- 9:30PM Gemara Sukka

Mondays 8:40 PM Beginners Talmud Monday 9:15PM Chumash & Rashi for Woman on Zoom

Tuesdays 8:45 - Parsha class for Woman on Zoom

Wednesdays- 8:40PM Parsha Class

Thursdays- 8:45PM- 10:15 PM  Mishmar Program

Learning through Various Torah Topics In Depth

 

We encourage you to join the growing list of members who have signed up for one on one zoom sessions to learn how to read Hebrew.  For a small investment of your time, you can become an active participant in the davening!

 

    

If Anyone Wants To Sponsor In Memory Of A Loved One The Day’s Learning Which Includes The Daf Yomi and The Evening Kollel Learning Please Contact The Shul Office

 

Looking For Sponsors To Help Purchase A New Freezer For The Shul/Camp Office

CEILING DONATIONS

  If You Have Not Yet Donated To The Ceiling In The Womens Section Here Is Your Opportunity To Help The Shul That You Love And Beautify It With A Nice Donation Going To The Ceiling In The Mens Section.

 

 

Do you know anyone in need?  Call Rabbi Perelson @ 718.444.6868

 

 

 

Thursdays- 8:45PM- 10:00PM New Mishmar Program Learning Through Various Torah Topics In Depth

 

 

FPJC is looking to create an historical archive of Dinner Journals and copies of the Voice (Shul bulletin). If you have any in your home, please drop them off in the Shul office.

 

 

DAILY AMUD YOMI

9:00AM AFTER SHACHARIT

GIVEN BY RABBI PERELSON

 

 

 

 

 

ANNOUNCEMENTS

 

 

A Very Special Thank You

 To Reb. Raizee Perelson For All Your Hard Work On The Challah Bakle

Thank you to Mr. & Mrs. Michael & Nelly Klayn for sponsoring The Challah Bake

in memory of Nelly’s beloved aunt, Charna bas Yosif A”H and

Mr. & Mrs. Boris & Esther Drukker.

Thank You To Raizy Shafar, Chaya, Brachy, Esty, Chani,  Batsheva Perelson, Jenny Shilkrat, and all the ladies from our weekly Tehillim Group for all your help setting up !

  

Happy 100^th Birthday To Marvin Jacobs!

Mazal Tov:  Stephanie Tarr on Bar Mitzvah of her son, Jacob Tarr.  Mazal Tov to Jacob’s sister, Taryn. Mazal Tov to grandparents Martin Heinfling and Ronnie Siebenberg. And a very special Mazal Tov to Jacob’s great grandmother, Lola Siebenberg.  Mazal Tov To Aunt Randi and Aunt Stephanie.  Mazal Tov to cousins, Max, Ikey, Ava, and Joshie.  Mazal Tov to Mike!  Mazal Tov to The Tarelsons!

 

Refuah Sheleima:

 

Shlomo Ben Naiomi, Leib ben Toiba, Magdolena Szigeti, Michael Weisblatt, Meir Kadosh, Zita Yakubovich, Samuel Richmond, Sharolta Gollender, Melissa Nosomowitz, Eugene Galpert, Judith Jackier, Lisa Weiselberg, Ann Bieber, Louis Gross, Lawrence & Carol Kaufman, Louis Kirsch, Florence Birnbaum, Binyamin Joyce, Marlene Nussbaum, Zelig & Miriam Kindler, Breindy Teitelbaum, Avraham Daniel ben Devorah Tova, Rose Bronheim, Tzilia Adamsky, Alex ben Leah, Helene Galletta, Gitel bat Sarah, Esther bat Janja, Anne Chesler, Irina bat Bayla, Erica bat Tila Elka, Tzipora bat Rajzi, Malka Shoshana bat Batya Nechama, Rochale Batya bat Chana Masha, Ronie ben Tzipora, Rivfka Deborah bat Gitel, Adam Meister, Pesach ben Bayla, Sima Rochel bat Yehudit, Benjamina Bat Necha, Efrat bas Shoshana, Shmuel Meltser ben Raizel, Menachem Mendel ben Rivkawolf, Shaya Eisen, Rachel Dvorah bat Tova, Miryam bat Shoshana, Harvey Hecker, Shlomo ben Shifrah, Ruth bat Emili, Rivka Chasha bas Tzivia Leah, Golda bas Feiga, Fay Targownik, Chaim Rachmiel ben Yitzchok,  Zypora bat Malamed, Yaakov ben Chantza, David Schor, Tzipora bat Velved Adamsky, William Schwartz, Yechiel Yaakov ben Tzivia Leah, Margalit Sara Efrat bat Katoon,  Chaya Sofya Sara bat Mera, Yisroel Dovid ben Batya, Avraham Ber ben Pesaa Bluma

Baruch Hashem, some of the above are nearing full recovery.

Our prayers are for all, with Hashem’s help, to have a Refuah Sheleima.

 

  

    

    Kiddush Sponsors:

     

     

           

          Ms. Stephanie Tarr, Taryn Tarr, Martin Heinfling, Ronnie Siebenberg, and Lola Siebenberg in honor of Jacob’s Bar Mitzvah!

      Mr. & Mrs. Eugene & Lilia Mauskop in memory of Eugene’s beloved father, Mordechai Mauskop A”H.

     

 

        Seudah Shlishit: 

          

         

          Ms. Stephanie Tarr and Taryn Tarr in honor of Jacob’s Bar Mitzvah!

 

          

      Nedivei Yom: 

            

Renee Goldenkranz in memory of Renee’s beloved father, Charles Sternberg A”H, Mrs. Jannet Schneider in memory of Jannet’s beloved mother, Yelena Drukker  A”H, Mr. Alexander Moshkovich in memory of Alexander’s beloved father, Chaim Moshkovich A”H, Mr. Ervin Roth in memory of Ervin’s beloved aunt, Toby Strobel A”H, Mr. Herman Roth in memory of Herman’s beloved aunt, Toby Strobel A”H, Mrs. Vera Kraven in memory of Vera’s beloved mother, Gisella Frishman A”H, Mr. Bernard Grotell in memory of Bernard’s beloved father, Milton Grotell A”H, Mr. Simon Guttman in memory of Simon’s beloved mother, Shula Guttman A”H.

 

If you are looking Bar Mitzvah Lessions Please Call Steven Blumkin At 917-618-1912 Or Email Him At steven_blumkin@aol.com

 

HASC IS HIRING

Work part time one on one with someone with special needs in your community. Go out for pizza, bowling and hang out while making money! For more info please call Sara at 718 535 1912

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